ARE
YOU STILL WORRYING?
-Sukanya Singh
‘Worrying’ is that
strong force of emotion that helps the mind to dwell in negative thoughts in a
repetitive form.
Worrying
gives you nothing!
Truly speaking it is
absolutely nothing. Worrying is just the process to make you tensed, stressed,
depressed and all those negative aspects you can think about. Worrying does not
add any happiness to your life. It degrades your performances day by day. It
snatches away the peacefulness of your mind, the potentialities, misguides you
with misleading thoughts. So why to worry??? Why to allow such emotion to live
in you that is so harming in nature??? Here are some few tips to tackle this
devil –
I.
Do not worry:
This is the very first way to tackle
your worries. For example – Suppose you
are not able to do the office work properly and your boss is just not happy
with it. He comes to you and tells you to put some effort. What will you do? At
such times, most of the people stay worried about the event that happened and
keep on thinking about it. This way they lose their potentials more and the
performance degrades day by day. So what should you do? Keep calm.
·
Accept
your mistakes
·
Try
to figure out your problems
·
Push
yourself a little
·
Improve
your performance
·
Give your best
It
is going to misguide you. Be Careful!
II.
Prepare for the worst:
This is the second way of tackling your
worries. Sometimes things do not appear in the way we want. Sometimes we do not
get the things we wish for. Always prepare for the worst scenario. To clear
your confusion, let us take the above quoted example. Suppose you tried your
best to complete the official task, still your boss is not happy with your
performance. He is not ready to appreciate. What will you do then??? Try a
little more to understand what he needs out of you. Even after your 100%, if
you are asked to leave, what will you do???Again worry??? React positively
rather. You will not die if you are fired from your current job. You are
capable enough to get a new one and start fresh. Have confidence in you and
your capabilities. Start working for your betterment. Take the lessons from
your past and try to establish yourself in the present for the long-run with positivity.
Believe in yourself.
Be confident enough in what you do..
III.
Get busy:
‘An
empty mind is a Devil’s house’. Yes! You heard it right. Keep yourself busy.
Follow your hobbies or things that you are most passionate about or else
negative thoughts such as ‘worries’ will surely occupy your body and mind. It
will make you inactive. Do not allow ‘worry’ to control you, get control over
your worries.
Do
more of what makes you happy...!
Time waits for none. Start utilising your
precious time in completing your left over tasks, do things that makes you happy. Sitting idle
should not be encouraged. Life is too short to worry. So live life to the
fullest. Best of Luck!!!
Lost
time is never found again...!
Good and Positive vibes
ReplyDeleteWow... Motivational ..
ReplyDeleteIt's been long time that i myself has been suffering with the disorders called "Worrying" and Honestly speaking , i am not able overcome...
Yes i have been trying ..
I apologise for the late reply. I could clear out the settings for the comments section today. Thank you all for supporting and encouraging.
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