What is wrong if we change ourselves？

WHAT IS WRONG IF WE CHANGE OURSELVES???

-SUKANYA SINGH

The world is full of opportunities still. Do you believe everything can be fixed once again and we all could live with peace and harmony? Yes??? Well if you believe then you are halfway there already. Come on! Let us all strive for a better place for a land of love, understanding, no wars, no violence just love, colours, smiles, and positive vibes.

We all know clearly that the world is sinking day by day. People are facing major difficulties. It has become hard for all of us to carry our responsibilities, duties in a proper way. The smooth functioning of life has turned out as ‘Rough operations’. Complaints and loads of harsh statements are flowing from all four directions. Rumours regarding the diverse religions, their people, culture, dress sense are being flooded with by some ‘social-culprits’. Small children are being put into work still, minor girls, even toddlers, and month’s old babies are being raped, killed, and murdered. Molestations are at their peak. Pets are tortured mercilessly. The absence of discipline and cleanliness has added extra power to the negative forces to rule the world and ruin everyone’s life. People’s active actions to fill up the world with man-made objects and destruct mother earth and its originality either by deforestation or mining, by biological wars or wars in the borders are increasing at a faster rate. ‘Humanity’ has lost its glory. People are becoming individuals with the ‘blaming’ character. They are often present with the ‘excuse-box’. Witnessing someone judging a different individual based on its complexion, religion, tradition, etc is no longer an uncommon thing. Domestic violence, fights for dowry have crossed the limits and continuing. Money is food, money is cloth, money is home, money is luxury, money is comfort, money is health, money is education, and what not? Literally what not? People are filled up with jealousy, ego, and hatred towards one another. Instead of appreciating people for their efforts or success, all are busy pulling them down and glue them with negative comments. They are not being motivated. They are being restricted. They are being scolded, taunted, ignored, and avoided.

What will happen if we choose to stay normal and simple? What will happen if we leave our ego, negative attitudes, weird gestures towards someone, jealousy, greedy nature, stop being self-centric all the time? Well if I say, these actions will lead to a better place to dwell in. People will be optimistic, encouraged to do something better for their people, community, State, or Country. People will be busy in productive activities rather than talking cheaply about others. Humans will be ‘Humans’ then and not ‘monsters’. They will act as a body with a brain in the true sense. Why are we demotivating? Why are we not encouraging others? As far as my knowledge goes if these things revolve around our head and hearts, trust me, we are all scared. We are cowards. We think others will be at the top and this harmful thought makes us act like mad and we engage ourselves with tasks that prove to be harmful to others. If you love taking the challenge, if you want to compete, then challenge yourself, compete with yourself. Improve yourself. Clean your inner thoughts and soul. Replace the negatives with the positives. You will surely see the changes soon. You will get noticed by everyone. I heard people get attracted to those who remain happy, keep smiling, and are very transparent. If we can be closer to them because of their jolly nature, why cannot we be among those? What is wrong with us that is stopping us to be one amongst them? It is our self-constructed rules and nothing. Come out of your thoughts once just once is enough. You will surely get to learn the differences. Do not get out of your limitations but do not destroy your capability to enjoy the world either. Feel the music , sit beside a window, observe the raindrops, notice the trees, look at the clear blue sky where the floating cute white clouds mesmerizes you with its shapes and movements, search for the earthy smell during the first pour of the season, observe how an empty classroom looks like, how companies work, how the country functions, search for moments where you know you can spread smiles, make someone feel special with or without occasions, help the needy, let not you advertise your occupation all the time, be honest with yourself, be kind to people around, think twice before speaking, do not get angry, be calm and composed, notice how people around you struggle for their livelihood, try just once to not to dominate others and enjoy little things with them having yourself with them in the same boat, observe how the undisturbed waves flows from one to other end and echoes back, look at the crystal clear water bodies how ravishing they look when not polluted with plastics and other wastes. Get your lives to a normal state. Remaining down to earth is the ultimate truth. Everything that grows from a state and becomes old again comes back to that very initial stage which we have crossed once. It is a cyclical process. Never be harsh on yourself. Goods and bad prevail always. If you can see the good in bad you are lucky and almost towards perfection. You will be contributing a meaning to be on earth. You will inspire others and to your surprise, you will be having a huge number of fans following in your footsteps. Isn’t that a great success for you rather than getting paid for killing or harming someone? Rather than being at the top by crushing or by throwing mean comments and actions towards them while on the way?